"Sometimes it takes a lot of pain to figure out what you're made of." ~ unknown The pain may be physical or mental. It may be a combination of both. Often, during the weeks end, it's the pain of being away from my children. Trying to fill my time away from the job with meaningful … Continue reading Figuring It Out
Adventures Can Be Lonely
"Nobody likes being alone that much. I don't go out of my way to make friends, that's all. It just leads to disappointment." ~ Haruki Murakami Moving five states away is an adventure, yes. Buying a new home and starting a job -- exciting, yes. Leaving your friends . . .your family. . .everything that … Continue reading Adventures Can Be Lonely
Score: House 2, Karen 0
"What I love most about this crazy life is the adventure of it." ~ Juliette Binoche Although I would prefer to have large blocks of time to spend working on the house, in reality I have short segments of time in which I can accomplish small steps towards completion. Earlier this week, I spent time … Continue reading Score: House 2, Karen 0
Things Got Real Intimate
"Intimacy, as I am using it, is sharing my reality with you." ~ Keith Miller Sharing. A concept parents try to instill in their children at an early age. I was no different. I don't mind sharing. Usually. I don't mind sharing my shower, although I'm rather selective about it. Matter of fact, it's downright … Continue reading Things Got Real Intimate
It Hasn’t Been Easy
"Life is about change. Sometimes it's painful. Sometimes it's beautiful. But most of the time, it's both." ~ Lana Lang Much like the swing poised over the unknown above, significant life changes can be beautiful with a hint of the unknown lurking below the surface. Moving. Making friends. Learning the job. Getting to know co-workers. … Continue reading It Hasn’t Been Easy
Starting “The Job”
"If you want to be successful in this world, you have to follow your passion, not a paycheck." ~ Jen Welter, NFL's first female coach Starting a new job is always nerve-wracking, at least for me. Day 1 - met my boss @ the guard shack and successfully avoided puking on his shoes. He asked … Continue reading Starting “The Job”
Adventure
"One way to make the most out of life is to look upon it as an adventure." ~ William Feather And the adventure has begun! Back-n-forth. Driving between states with purpose and reason and then, finally. . . Driving to the new home for permanence other than short visits. Tension. Tears. Leaving the kids behind. … Continue reading Adventure
Dancing (or Driving) (or Dancing while Driving)
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance, never settle for the path of least resistance. . .and when you get the chance to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance. ~ Tia Sillers/Mark Sanders Making a 12-hr drive should be exhausting. Of course that's 12 hrs of just driving. That … Continue reading Dancing (or Driving) (or Dancing while Driving)
Breaking Ties
"A part of your healing will be to rediscover what it means to be you; there will be some additional scars inflicted by your ex-partner, but your inner self will eventually shine again." -- A Conscious Rethink Having been in a relationship with a narcissist, and having to continue dealing with him on a … Continue reading Breaking Ties
Cranberry Chicken
I wish I had an enticing, mouth-watering photo to insert here. . . Alas! I am not a food photographer and I didn't think to take a picture until after we'd eaten the evidence. You're just going to have to take my word for it. The chicken recipe I'm about to share is bomb-diggity one … Continue reading Cranberry Chicken